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"I want to give collaborative divorce a try,

but how do I check my anger at the door?"

Attorney George Reilly of Rucci Burnham in Darien responds ...

Look forward. In collaborative divorce, there is no useful role for the emotions that prompted the divorce. In order to be successful in a collaborative process, you must focus on the future.

In a collaborative divorce, the parties and their attorneys make an agreement that they will not resort to the courts, but they will work around a table to resolve the issues. If a party finds that he or she must go to court, then both attorneys must withdraw from the case.

The collaborative process requires that parties have a mindset to negotiate earnestly and disclose information diligently to result in compromise. Rehashing old disputes will be counterproductive in resolving issues.

Dredging up the past for litigation is contrary to the forward focus of collaborative divorce. In litigation you focus on the past in the hope of painting a portrait for the court of an unworthy adversary at fault in causing the divorce. No agreements will be made collaboratively where history is the focus of attention.

Many collaborative attorneys encourage the parties to talk about their goals at the outset. The parties must look foward to new living arrangements and plan according to financial resources that are needed and available. The collaborative process is about the future - with that focus, you can check your emotions at the door.

 

Attorneys George A. Reilly and Stephen P. Horner were  named "Super Lawyers"

Attorney George A. Reilly, partner and head of the Family Law Department of the firm, has been included in the list of New England and Connecticut Super Lawyers in Family Law for the second year in a row by Law and Politics and the publishers of Connecticut Magazine

Attorney Stephen P. Horner, of counsel to the firm, has been named New England Super Lawyer in Labor and Employment Law for the third year in a row.

For details about the selection process please click here.

 

Entertainment Attorney, William F. Fitzgerald, joins

 “Hollywood East” Connecticut State Panel

Attorney William F. Fitzgerald, partner and head of the Entertainment and Sports Department of the firm has been named to serve on Connecticut’s newly formed “Hollywood East Task Force”.  The formation of this panel was announced by House Speaker, James Amann, D-Milford.  Its purpose is to establish a film production work force that will maintain the state’s booming film industry which has grown rapidly since the General Assembly passed a 30% tax credit program last year.  The panel is composed of lawmakers, educators, tradesmen and film industry representatives.  The next meeting of this State Panel is scheduled for December 11th, 2007 in Hartford.

 

Announcement

Joseph J. Rucci, Jr., Managing Partner and Founder of the firm, was being "roasted" by the New Canaan Gridiron Club during a fun-filled evening on April 13th at the Country Club of New Cannan. The New Canaan Gridiron Club is a social organization created to promote camaraderie among its members who come from a wide variety of backgrounds and professions within the community.

Attorney Rucci, a New Canaan native, was portrayed by members of the Club who in a variety of fun skits recreated his life on stage, starting with his high school years, through college and the first signs of the budding entrepreneur, dating and meeting his soul mate Debbie, law school, life as an FBI agent, family man, and attorney-at-law.

 

Articles

 

Is this Age Discrimination?
by Stephen P. Horner, Esq.


        I was fired from an upper level position with an 

        insurance company, after 17 years of service. As

        my 200 employee department - which I headed -

        was eliminated, the insurance company found

        internal transfers for everyone else but me.

        Although I accepted two separate internal transfer

        offers, each offer was rescinded shortly after I

        accepted. Since I am 59, and one of the oldest in

        the department, is this age discrimination? If so,

        what am I entitled to?
                                            Steve K., Ridgefield
, CT

        On the surface, this termination certainly has the

        appearance of age discrimination. Of course, there

        could be additional factors.....

Negotiating your Severance Agreement
by Mark R. Carta, Esq.

You are summoned to the HR office and told in a perfunctory manner your services are no longer required. At some point in this "meeting" you are handed a Severance and General Release Agreement ("Agreement"). You are not familiar with such a document and find your Agreement confusing and legalistic. What do you do now?

It may be time to review your Estate Plan

by Paul H. Burnham, Esq.

Significant changes in the interplay between the federal and state estate tax systems, effective January 1, 2004 should cause you to consider, again, your estate plan.
With respect to the estates of those passing away between January 1, 2002 and the first day of this year no federal or state tax was imposed upon property passing to the surviving spouse or a charity, nor upon the first $1,000,000 in value of property passing to other beneficiaries. With respect to the estates of those passing away on and after January 1 the exempt amount is increased to ....

 

What a home buyer should know about title insurance.
by Colette Symon Hanratty, Esq.

2003 was another year of tremendous turnover in the Darien real estate market. Prices continued to rise and more and more people were taking advantage of low interest rates which allowed them to purchase higher priced homes or to jump in to buy their first one.
As soon as the weather warms up potential home buyers usually go out “house-hunting”. Part of the process of purchasing a home is getting in touch with an attorney who will
....

   

Confidentiality And Non-Compete Agreements
Do They Pass The Reasonableness Test?
by Arthur K. Engle, Esq.

       

Today is known as The Information Age, and for good reason: with the advent of the Internet and global communications, information is just a phone call or a mouse click away. With such unprecedented access to information,businesses employ various means to protect  their private information, in particular their trade secrets. The reason is simple: in today's competitive market, a company's trade secrets can  mean the difference between success and failure....

       

         

Why Young Parents Should Consider Estate Planning
by Kathryn L. Pasternak, Esq.

        Often younger couples put off thinking about their

        estate plan. They may do so for a variety of

        reasons: it's not the most upbeat topic to ponder

        because one has to consider one's own mortality; it

        doesn't seem particularly pressing as the couple's

        assets are not yet to a level where they are

        concerned about estate taxes and they are in great

        health, anyway.

        Unfortunately, however, many people do not realize

        that, if they die without having a valid will, their

        assets will be distributed according to the state ...

 

For Divorce, Collaborate Don't Litigate
by George A. Reilly, Esq.

Tim was sad but resigned as he described his marriage in our initial conference. He reported how he and his wife had grown apart over the years. There were disagreements about how to spend their money, how to raise the kids, how to advance their careers, and how to spend their time together. Marriage counseling could not make him love his wife anymore. Tim was not angry, but he was convinced the time ...

 

Things To Know When Selling Your Home
by the members of the Real Estate Team

You listed your home - now what?

You made the decision to sell you home and have taken the first step by listing it with a local realtor who will help you with the sale of

probably your biggest investment. The next step ....

 

Things To Know When Buying A Home
by the members of the Real Estate Team

        Pre-qualification for a mortgage.

        A mortgge lender can pre-qualify or  pre-approve

        a potential buyer for a mortgage up to a specific

        amount based on the buyer's financial information.

        A potential buyer who can show the seller and/or

        the realtor that he/she has been pre-qualified for

        financing might be preferred. It should be noted ....

 

Purchasing a Residence in New York City
by Ian R. Crawford, Esq.

          Fairfield County residents frequently purchase

        residences in New York City either for themselves to

        serve as a new home or as a pied-a-terre, or for

          their children who may be just starting their careers

        and need parental assistance. In either case, all

        purchasers should be aware of how New York City

        costs and procedures differ  from those in

        Connecticut.

          The most common form of residence in Manhattan is

        the cooperative apartment which makes up over....

 

Civil Defendants Finally Awarded a Defensive Weapon
by Darcy S. McAlister, Esq.


Imagine if you are sued by someone seeking to recover money damages from you. Despite the fact that the lawsuit might be frivolous or that you are convinced you will ultimately prevail, it is an inescapable truth that you will be forced to expend considerable effort and to incur substantial cost in....