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"I want to give collaborative divorce a try,
but how do I check my anger at the door?"
Attorney George Reilly of Rucci Burnham in Darien responds ...
Look forward. In collaborative divorce, there is no useful role for the emotions that prompted the divorce. In order to be successful in a collaborative process, you must focus on the future.
In a collaborative divorce, the parties and their attorneys make an agreement that they will not resort to the courts, but they will work around a table to resolve the issues. If a party finds that he or she must go to court, then both attorneys must withdraw from the case.
The collaborative process requires that parties have a mindset to negotiate earnestly and disclose information diligently to result in compromise. Rehashing old disputes will be counterproductive in resolving issues.
Dredging up the past for litigation is contrary to the forward focus of collaborative divorce. In litigation you focus on the past in the hope of painting a portrait for the court of an unworthy adversary at fault in causing the divorce. No agreements will be made collaboratively where history is the focus of attention.
Many collaborative attorneys encourage the parties to talk about their goals at the outset. The parties must look foward to new living arrangements and plan according to financial resources that are needed and available. The collaborative process is about the future - with that focus, you can check your emotions at the door.
Attorneys George A. Reilly and Stephen P. Horner were named "Super Lawyers"
Attorney George A. Reilly, partner and head of the Family Law Department of the firm, has been included in the list of New England and Connecticut Super Lawyers in Family Law for the second year in a row by Law and Politics and the publishers of Connecticut Magazine.
Attorney Stephen P. Horner, of counsel to the firm, has been named New England Super Lawyer in Labor and Employment Law for the third year in a row.
For details about the selection process please click here.
Entertainment Attorney, William F. Fitzgerald, joins
“Hollywood East” Connecticut State Panel
Attorney William F. Fitzgerald, partner and head of the Entertainment and Sports Department of the firm has been named to serve on Connecticut’s newly formed “Hollywood East Task Force”. The formation of this panel was announced by House Speaker, James Amann, D-Milford. Its purpose is to establish a film production work force that will maintain the state’s booming film industry which has grown rapidly since the General Assembly passed a 30% tax credit program last year. The panel is composed of lawmakers, educators, tradesmen and film industry representatives. The next meeting of this State Panel is scheduled for December 11th, 2007 in Hartford.
Announcement

Joseph J. Rucci, Jr., Managing Partner and Founder of the firm, was being "roasted" by the New Canaan Gridiron Club during a fun-filled evening on April 13th at the Country Club of New Cannan. The New Canaan Gridiron Club is a social organization created to promote camaraderie among its members who come from a wide variety of backgrounds and professions within the community.
Attorney Rucci, a New Canaan native, was portrayed by members of the Club who in a variety of fun skits recreated his life on stage, starting with his high school years, through college and the first signs of the budding entrepreneur, dating and meeting his soul mate Debbie, law school, life as an FBI agent, family man, and attorney-at-law.
Articles
Is this Age Discrimination?
by Stephen P. Horner, Esq.
I was fired from an upper level position with an
insurance company, after 17 years of service. As
my 200 employee department - which I headed -
was eliminated, the insurance company found
internal transfers for everyone else but me.
Although I accepted two separate internal transfer
offers, each offer was rescinded shortly after I
accepted. Since I am 59, and one of the oldest in
the department, is this age discrimination? If so,
what am I entitled to?
Steve K., Ridgefield, CT
On the surface, this termination certainly has the
appearance of age discrimination. Of course, there
could be additional factors.....
Negotiating
your Severance Agreement
by
Mark R. Carta, Esq.
You are summoned to the HR office and told in a perfunctory
manner your services are no longer required. At some point in
this "meeting" you are handed a Severance and General
Release Agreement ("Agreement"). You are not familiar
with such a document and find your Agreement confusing and legalistic.
What do you do now?
It
may be time to review your Estate Plan
by
Paul H. Burnham, Esq.
Significant
changes in the interplay between the federal and state estate
tax systems, effective January 1, 2004 should cause you to consider,
again, your estate plan.
With respect to the estates of those passing away between January
1, 2002 and the first day of this year no federal or state tax
was imposed upon property passing to the surviving spouse or
a charity, nor upon the first $1,000,000 in value of property
passing to other beneficiaries. With respect to the estates
of those passing away on and after January 1 the exempt amount
is increased to ....
What
a home buyer should know about title insurance.
by
Colette Symon Hanratty, Esq.
2003
was another year of tremendous turnover in the Darien real estate
market. Prices continued to rise and more and more people were
taking advantage of low interest rates which allowed them to
purchase higher priced homes or to jump in to buy their first
one.
As soon as the weather warms up potential home buyers usually
go out “house-hunting”. Part of the process of purchasing
a home is getting in touch with an attorney who will ....
Confidentiality
And Non-Compete Agreements
Do
They Pass The Reasonableness Test?
by Arthur
K. Engle, Esq.
Today
is known as The Information Age, and for good reason: with
the advent of the Internet and global communications, information
is just a phone call or a mouse click away. With such unprecedented
access to information,businesses employ various means to protect
their private information, in particular their trade secrets.
The reason is simple: in today's competitive market, a company's
trade secrets can mean the difference between success
and failure....
Why
Young Parents Should Consider Estate Planning
by
Kathryn L. Pasternak, Esq.
Often younger couples put off thinking
about their
estate
plan. They may do so for a variety of
reasons: it's not the
most
upbeat topic to ponder
because one has to
consider
one's own mortality; it
doesn't seem particularly
pressing as the couple's
assets are not yet
to a level where they are
concerned about
estate taxes and they are in great
health,
anyway.
Unfortunately, however, many people do not realize
that, if
they die without having a valid will, their
assets will be
distributed according to the state ...
For
Divorce, Collaborate Don't Litigate
by
George A. Reilly, Esq.
Tim
was sad but resigned as he described his marriage in our initial
conference. He reported how he and his wife had grown apart
over the years. There were disagreements about how to spend
their money, how to raise the kids, how to advance their careers,
and how to spend their time together. Marriage counseling could
not make him love his wife anymore. Tim was not angry, but he
was convinced the time ...
Things
To Know When Selling Your Home
by
the members of the Real Estate Team
You
listed your home - now what?
You
made the decision to sell you home and have taken the first
step by listing it with a local realtor who will help you with
the sale of
probably
your biggest investment. The next step ....
Things
To Know When Buying A Home
by the members of the Real Estate
Team
Pre-qualification for a mortgage.
A mortgge lender can
pre-qualify or pre-approve
a potential buyer for
a mortgage up to a specific
amount based on the
buyer's financial information.
A potential buyer who
can show the seller and/or
the realtor that he/she
has been pre-qualified for
financing might be
preferred. It should be noted ....
Purchasing
a Residence in New York City
by
Ian R. Crawford, Esq.
Fairfield County residents frequently purchase
residences in New York
City either for themselves to
serve as a new home
or as a pied-a-terre, or for
their
children who may be just starting their careers
and need parental assistance.
In either case, all
purchasers should be
aware of how New York City
costs and procedures
differ from those in
Connecticut.
The
most common form of residence in Manhattan is
the cooperative apartment
which makes up over....
Civil
Defendants Finally Awarded a Defensive Weapon
by
Darcy S. McAlister, Esq.
Imagine
if you are sued by someone seeking to recover money damages
from you. Despite the fact that the lawsuit might be frivolous
or that you are convinced you will ultimately prevail, it is
an inescapable truth that you will be forced to expend considerable
effort and to incur substantial cost in....
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